Happy 4th Anniversary To Us!

Well, today marks four years that Tom and I have been married. Although he likes to bust my chops and say it seems more like eight- {because we lived together for four so maybe he's not too far off!} time just seemed like it flew by! In those four years, we've gotten pregnant,gotten married,had to make a life or death decision ,had a beautiful baby boy,put a down payment on a house,saw the construction was terrrible, gotten moneyback, lived in two diff apt complexes,then purchased a real house{this one} made a deal w/ FIL to live in it 'till we were ready to move down again, {which BTW was the worst mistake we could have made because all he ever did was cause trouble for the rest of the family and they would call us up and complain like kids running to their mother or father-{oh the headaches!} Then DH got a job offer to work from home{ocassionally it seems} but get the pay of up north-heaven sent-and kicked dear ol dad out on his patootie and moved down here to Florida and finally moved into a house like I always wanted with a backyard for Thomas and future swingset, and dog and friends the whole nine.speaking of friends, Our best friends who got married a year after we did,also are very close in anniversary dates {they're Aug.11th}, So Stacey{the wife} and I are conspiring to send our DH'S on a chartered fishing trip for a day for a combined anniversary present to our special men. Ever since we moved down here, the two of them have been trying to go fishing together but with conflicting schedules{he's a head cook at a restaurant,and weekends are really hard to get off for him, if anything he usually has to pull doubles,and has days off and watches his two little girls- {2 1/2 and 10 mos.} and Tom has to work days but can get the evenings off and weekends off-see where its rough?So we figured {Stacey and I} as anniversary presents to our men,we'd send them on offshore chartered fishing trip for a day - they have no idea about it. She's just gonna tell him to go into work late one Saturday{since the boat gets back by 5 and he would have to be at work by 6-kind tight- She said she thinks they'll get along w/o him for an hour while he cleans up and gets to work.and as far as us, Thomas will get to play with Ashley for a day And Stacey and I will get to reminisce on what our husbands have put us through for the past four years {or in her case three} I kinda felt bad for DH last night ;he and Shane {Stacey's DH} were gonna go fishing and DH was so excited he was finally gonna go , he got all his fishing stuff out of the garage and packed his tackle box, and at the last minute, Shane said it was raining by him and they weren't gonna go. DH was sooo dissapointed. So he went over their house around 7 and played Xbox with him till 11 instead. I tell ya he's gonna enjoy this fishing trip after seeing the dissapointment on his face like that!